Wednesday, February 18, 2009

BARBARA LULICH

Special people are hard to take leave of,and now i know why my friends were so depressed in 2006.
Its always harder on the loved ones.yes we feel the pain but you are looking on unable to help.
I met her in mr. Kerrs office Barbara meet pat pat Barbara and there we instantly bonded as she told me she loved my locks a red flag to mr. kerr ,i instantly loved her as she in no uncertain terms told him how my look was perfect for the spa.
I had heard about her from the moment i arrived at ssb but had yet to meet her as she had left before i arrived but her name lingered on as the person reponsible for us never to know an empty day.
They were trying to get her to come back and that she did to SJG.
I quickly realized that if you wanted anything done she was the person to go to and my brochures suddenly srtarted looking like brochures as they got a makeover,courtesy of ms. B
She has a son a dark haired version of her and she, her partner and son,nothing but a riot,funny is not the word.
The pain came a good while before the DIAGNOSIS.
We ate everyday that we were at work at SJG together.The three directors they called us. We laughed and the other 2 prevented me from eating things like brisket which she devoured and then had a smoke to finish the meal,making sure she stayed far from me.
When i think of those things now i just cringe.........
she wanted to stop smoking so there came my holistic practitioner who told us her that her body was just too acidic........(take note of that people thats when all kinds of things creep in diseases can`t come in if your body stays alkaline.)
she took nothing that he gave her,i inherited them months later ..fast forward to late 2008 and she stopped smoking.....meanwhile the pain came she thought she had sciatica but after weeks of pain and trying everything in the world the diagnosis came lung spread to bone with tumours in the stomach walls.
Massive doses of chemo at the Mayo clinic did nothing.......diagnosis came 13th jan death came 23rd april.....
Missing her started during the Inauguration as things like that we watch with phone blackberries and computers going..........
It seems as if this desease is going to claim us all if we dont start preventing!

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