Wednesday, July 16, 2008

FEAR/LOVE

Throw your heart over the fence and the rest will follow
NORMAN VINCENT PEALE

U know fear and love are to me the 2 greatest things in life.....One keeps us paralyzed from doing anything and the other lets us do anything we want to do....why?
What our mind can conceive we can achieve ......Fear make us unable to think so we do nothing and love makes us feel we can do everything so we do.
Problem is we confuse genuine love with foolishness and wonder why we are not achieving anything, because we are so absorbed with the other person, not knowing ourself....
I have never liked that phrase 'my other half '.....to me it connotates that we need the other half to become whole, but i believe if u r not whole u not going to attract a whole person u going to get just what u ordered...... a half.
We need to spend all our time trying to be whole, perfect and complete therefore attracting into our life the same. U know like attracts like , so save yourself the stress , try and work on yourself therefore u r more aware of what you want to attract into your life and when the wrong one appears u can sense it immediately so u can send them packing ..........
When we get caught up with the drama , nothing comes of it. We stay unhappy and hurt and constantly blame everybody but ourself.....He/she did it to me..NO.....u did it to yourself.
Don`t play the blame game, just come from an honest perspective and u will see clearly that it's u and only u.
Love is forever, it doesn`t come and go, they didn`t change ,u have taken off the rose coloured glasses, that's all, admit u made that move because u FEARED being alone , so u labeled it LOVE.
Nobody changed u just are now seeing them differently, if u had stayed in the now u would have seen them clearly long ago, but label nothing bad, realize that u needed to learn the lesson.
When u open yourself to the universe all kinds of positive things appear...just KNOW what u want and open yourself BELIEVING. NOT FEARING.LOVE is the only way.
In other words LET GO AND LET GOD!
'Throw your heart over the fence.............

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Pat, this is so true. The desparation of not facing ourselves leads us to hold on to others with dear life, even if they are not for our highest good. We become unconscious so that we don't have to decide and then we complain when our choice proves to be uhealthy. We have got to take care of ourselves and that means staying awake as we choose those who will walk the journey of life with us. There is nothing wrong with knowing yourself and therefore daring to know others so that you can make a choice that is best for both. Love is not selfish---satisfying your needs at the expense of others. Love is mutual and both parties who dare to open their heart to it, are a blessing to each other.

Unknown said...

Great post.