LOVE ,THE FEELING WE FEEL.

LOVE LIKE WATER ALWAYS FINDS ITS OWN WAY.
Ingrid Batencourt

Is what we are watching people go through now.... love? Who is Christie Brinkley and why does the media think that we want to watch her and her husband disintegrating on camera...do u care ? I don`t!
And what happens if Madonna and A-rod want to link up ? Isn`t that their business aren`t they the ones prepared to shell out the big bucks to be together? And if they make the choice to be together, any bets on how long they will last?
But better yet ....is it true or is the media doing their usual number ? A-rod is a rich Hispanic. Is he too rich for a Hispanic and needs to be brought down ? The media plays so many games one never knows.
U know as a teenager there was a joke going....... when u ask what is love they would say love is a feeling u feel when u are feeling the feeling u r feeling. Didn`t understand it then , but over the years and noticing that the feeling i was feeling wasn't there any more it became clear to me that it wasn`t funny at all........But true it was.....And now that i can watch from an arm chair it certainly is a feeling u r feeling when u r feeling the feeling u r feeling!
Why though do we get married while we r feeling that feeling ?
Shouldn`t we wait till we are not feeling it anymore ? Then we would know the difference between passing fancies and love........We would know the difference between the genitals and the brain .
I watched the bachelorette last night and isn`t there something a bit sick about this woman kissing how many men in one day and holding hands with 2 of them at the same time and kissing one then the other and telling them both she is falling in love with them..... people look down on swingers..What's the difference? This looks a little sicko to me.
Looking on that show(the bachelorette) and listening to the after show with all the tears and drama........This young lady made one poor guy go down on his knees knowing that she wasn`t choosing him as she claimed to be in love with another, but how do u fall in love with 3 guys at once ?.....I think that is what sums up marriage these days ...drama.....pure soap opera stuff......we are caught up in the drama of Love.
We are in love with the idea of being in love, how we feel in this moment has no bearing on the next....we have no idea what we are doing. We bring children willy nilly into this world, then we wonder where did all these dysfunctional children come from . Guess what ? We had them.........we didn`t even think of it. We were in love or in sex or whatever we were in at that moment.
We are going to have to start thinking a little more long term.....Maybe we should find out if we are in-like first so if in-love wears off at least we can be friends so that LOVE, WHILE IT FINDS IT'S OWN WAY will be the feeling we are feeling permanently.